Saturday brought a wintry storm that coated the land in a crystalline blanket of new fallen snow. The view out the window the next morning was of a picturesque New England in winter. I am grateful for the strong differences in seasons here. Each season has its positives and negatives. Maybe it’s because I’ve lived in New England all my life, but I appreciate the timing of the seasons. It seems one season will emerge, bringing its special character; then, just before it has overstayed its welcome, the next season presents itself. There is drama and metaphor in each New England season that calls to me.

I am also grateful for friendship. There’s an increased attention in the Holiday season to reconnect and rekindle friendships. In my Christmas Morning Gratitude, I described taking time in order to individually think about and appreciate my friends and loved ones. As I’ve gotten older, I feel we are traveling farther and more often, and technology is connecting the world more than ever—both of which make the globe seem a little smaller and personal. Two side effects of this are that one’s friends and acquaintances are moving farther and farther away, and one’s circle of connections grows wider and wider. Both are marvelous things, but it makes face-to-face meetings rather inconvenient and out-of-date.

Therefore, it’s very special when you get the opportunity to get together with a close friend. With true friends, it usually feels as though it’s been much too long since the last time; yet, you are both able to pick up like no time at all has gone by. I’ve had a series of these connections over this past week. We had lunch with one of the women who hosted an Engagement Party for us two years ago. Also, a short moment and loving hug with one of the beautiful ladies who stood with me at my wedding. There was time spent with my father-in-law, discussing politics, religion, and family history (typically, your trifecta of touchy taboo subjects). Finally, an extended visit with two families, each with children, who know us, going back to our school days.

In each of those visits, I reaffirm something of myself by these friends that I keep. I am proud to know these people, and I feel fortunate that they consider us friends, also. When you consider how far our friends now scatter, and how numbered our acquaintances grow through our experiences and adventures, not to mention family/work/school/social media networks; it really says something about who you take time to sit down with to connect, and who takes the time to sit down with you.

Don’t take it for granted, and choose carefully how and with whom to spend those moments. They are precious!

Thanks, so much, for taking the time to read this. I am grateful.

Happy New Year!!!